
Celebrations of Life
&
Funerals
I officiate two types of ceremonies: A ‘Celebration of Life’ and a traditional ‘Funeral cremation’ ceremony...
A ‘Celebration of Life’ ceremony is often more upbeat and less formal, with the focus completely on the celebration of your loved ones life. Much more freedom is given to the ceremony; as there is no coffin present, it can take place at any time, take place anywhere and has no set length or structure.
A ‘Funeral cremation’ ceremony takes place in a crematorium and will have the coffin present for the family/ friends/ guests to see. You’ll be given a specific availability date by your local crematorium and an allocated time slot. The ceremony itself contains the traditional structure of; Processional, Eulogy, Tributes, Reflection, Committal and Recessional.
‘Celebrations of Life’ and ‘Funeral cremations’ have a lot in common, even if they appear very differently. Whether you lean towards the more modern storytelling or are rooted more in the traditional structure; with me as your celebrant, I treat both ceremonies the same - applying my warmth, empathy and whole hearted charisma so that you have the opportunity to remember, honour and celebrate your cherished one, so that joy and sorrow coexist in a ceremony that truly captures their spirit.
Celebrations of Life & Funerals don’t have to be something you dread. Though challenging, they can also be full of joy, warmth and love.
Dad
‘Celebrations of Life’ and ‘Funeral cremations’ strike a real personal cord for me. My best friend, my hero, my dad, passed away over 10 years ago. His funeral was something that I look back on, though incredibly tough, as such a beautiful send off.
I remember the day I wrote my dad’s eulogy as if it were yesterday; I didn’t just write words for a service, I wrote a tribute to a life that inspired everyone he met, a celebration salute to a man who shaped who I am. That moment was more than just a personal loss; it was a turning point - Reading his eulogy out loud at his funeral, surrounded by family and friends, capturing my dad’s essence, whether I realized it or not; a spark was ignited in me… that I wanted to help other families do the same. Help them navigate this chapter with the same care, sense of purpose and pride that we have for our loved ones.
What made it so special was the way it was organised; I made it a day of colour, no black clothes and even told his ex ‘London Welsh’ rugby team mates to wear their original 70’s rugby shirts, some (well mostly all) airing a little bit on the tight side. I interspersed his favourite music through out, of Bruce Springsteen and Arcade Fire with poetry read by myself from Dylan Thomas (being the proud Welshman he was). The tribute I wrote and delivered celebrated his incredible life, flipping between comic timing and sensitive heartfelt storytelling that had the crematorium guests laughing and crying in equal measure over this broad shouldered, always smiling, beautiful souled, chunky calved, Chateauneuf-du-pape loving man - my wondrous dad, Dai boi Jones.
I believe that ‘Celebrations of Life’ and ‘Funeral cremations’ serve as pivotal moments in our lives and should reflect our loved ones that we’ve lost. Each life is a unique story, filled with memories, accomplishments, and connections. ‘Celebrations of Life’ and ‘Funeral cremations’ provide the opportunity to share these narratives, honouring the individuality of the person who has passed and express the impact they had on those around them.
My role is to orchestrate a collaborative process; between myself and families to establish a space where stories and emotions can be expressed and woven into an authentic ceremony that feels right for you and truly personal to your loved one. I feel privileged to walk alongside families on that journey, helping them reflect, and celebrate the beauty of their loved ones life and find healing in the approach.